My friend found out her husband was cheating and brought home the pack of his used condom she spoke to him about it he denied it saying he owes her no explanation and continues cheating even when she is willing to forgive him and make her marriage work. But he is not willing to he has stopped communicating with her verbally in the same house.
Pls what do you advice she does?
Thanks
Let her ignor him and do as if nothing in such has never happened,let her do her normal domestic work,and pretend as if he never loved him anylonger,no discussion,his present shd look as if he is not at home for a month, busy with her phone.
ReplyDeleteAs I always say, it is he who wears the shoes that knows where it pinches the most. It still falls back to her. If she's ok with still living with him and continue being married to him then fine, but if not, she should take a bow out honourably. There are times in relationships and marriages, practical actions needs to be taken, there's time to ignore, there's time to pray and there's time to face the situation headlong. My own view.
ReplyDeleteMy question is this Ene. does he cheat to her face, is he taking care of his whole responsibility as a man. To now answer the questions, if the cheating is the one that she found out her self by snooping, looking for what she did not keep, then she can ignore him and pretend that it doesn't hurt. Find a way of making her self happy and forget about the man. Secondly if the man takes care of his whole responsibility , why worry her self, i will only advise that she minds the way she sleeps with him or better still, stop sleeping with him to avoid the story that touches the heart. If she leaves, how sure is she with the next man that would come her way.
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