From a Male Reader..
Hello Eneche,
Here is my issue. 6years ago I was incredibly stupid and left the love of my life because I allowed other people to put "stupid and untrue" idea's about her in my head. I was told by a friend that my girl friend was cheating on me, and it was so convincing, that I decided to leave the relationship by starting one with the woman that I am married to now. Don't get me wrong, I do love me wife, and in the beginning, things were great. Over the years, the relationship has dwindled down to nothing despite me trying everything that I could to get keep the marriage strong. Well, last week, my ex (the one I never should have dumped in the first place) contacted me and her current marriage is kinda sucking too. We have talked on the phone, and even met for lunch. The wierd thing is, it was like we have never been separated for that 5 years. Everything is still the same, our connection hasn't faded and I know in my heart that I am still madly in love with her. She still loves me to. What do I do? Do I leave an unhappy but stable life to attempt to rebuild a life with her? Do I stay with my wife, risk being unhappy, and let my true love move out of my life again? Any suggestions? This really is making me sick!!
Mr Man u are married and she is married.even if both parties are nt happy in the marriage u just need to make ur marriage work.leaving ur wife for ur ex and ur ex leaving her husband for u its just d flesh dat is speaking to u.discuss with ur wife and make watever is not working work.ThankGod u said u luv ur wife.then do everytin u can to cut off frm ur ex becos d truth is as long as u keepin touch the feeling will keep coming.
ReplyDeleteStay wit ur wife!! Learn how to love her again.. nd pray! Goodluck dear ..
ReplyDeleteDear Mr, Please stay with your wife, pray with her and sort things out. 5 Years from now you'll be grateful to God you did.
ReplyDeleteAs for your EX, there's a reason she's your EX, kindly X her out of your life & quit communicating with her lest the devil will plant weird ideas in both your minds. 5 years from now if you go with ur EX you may regret it in life. As a married woman it is irresponsible of her to try to initiate things with you. Perhaps your friends have a point (no pun intended). Same goes go for you. Be a responsible man and go back to your family. For the sake of God, your wife, kids & their future. God bless!!!