Hello Readers
About a Week ago,I received a call from my husband who was at that time in his office.he told me that on no account should I answer the door if anybody came knocking. He claimed there's a man who's going crazy and was accusing him of having an affair with his wife.Hmmmm.I was confused at first but said ok. I waited almost the whole day no one showed up.instead I got a call from my dad saying someone called him to say his "Son Inlaw was having an affair with his Wife" and his wife already confessed to him when he confronted her with evidence.I was Embarrassed and angry at same time ..why should my husband date someone's wife. I called my husband immediately and he denied it saying the guy was nuts . that he's just friends with the lady nothing more and that they were secondary school friends. Finally I called the man in question and he told me they had been having an affair for a couple years and were meeting at a guest house in Ikeja. I got the womans phone number and it was the most frequently dialled number on my Hubby's phone with multiple sex text messages. My husband called the woman and put the phone on speaker for me to hear their conversation. He said tell my wife your husband is crazy and nothing happened. Her response was "thats your problem you need to get your own marriage in order like I am". "There is no friendship here". He acted as if I was supposed to take that as nothing happened but I didn't. He gets mad when I refer to his girlfriend and still says nothing ever happened.
I don' t really know what to do with this. I want to believe him...but too many things point to him lying.
Do you think he did It???
Did she say 'do you think he did it?'
ReplyDeleteI am sure she knows the answer. I wish her well in putting her marriage in order. They really need to talk tho...
hi anonymous, i would quickly like to tell u that we WOMEN are strong hearted (we get mind) before a woman decides to cheat not to talk of a married woman, she don make up her mind.
ReplyDeletethat lady will continue to cheat with your husband as long as he allows it.
in this case ur husband is not ready to repent from his actions that means he is to available to the other woman.
SOLUTION: wake up and smell the coffee, war has begun and to fight this war victoriously is to take this matter to God in prayer. Women you don't seem to believe how powerful God is. are u kidding me! God will so turn your husband around. Do not talk about this matter with him again, continue to perform ur duties as a good wife. PRAY. WAKE UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT MAKE IT A LIFE STYLE AND PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBANDS FAITHFULNESS, GOD HEARS AND HE WILL ANSWER YOU
Lol. Madam, in ur heart of hearts, u know the answer to ur question. U Know fully well that ur hubby is a lying coward. I think the question u shd be asking is how to handle the issue not whether he is really having an affair with the woman. Shd u leave him because of that? That's up to u. But I wouldn't. Will ur husband ever admit to his indiscretion? Lol. Definitely no . He is adopting the deny till I die approach. But u need to let him know u know the truth and decide ur strategy from there. Of course pray for wisdom for how to handle it. But also tell ur husband that since he has shown u he has no regard for marriage, u now know u have freedom to do as u wish . a veiled threat or statement which u know u will NEVER act on (cos I will not advice any woman to do that).
ReplyDeleteGood luck with ur marriage. But arm urself with the knowledge of the truth. And go from there. Don't be like all those women who like to live in a fools paradise because it will come back and bite u.