My husband is seriously cheating on me and rubbing it in. I wake up everyday wishing it was a dream, but my dream is almost becoming a reality as my husband and boyfriend of seven years is planning on marrying his side chick (the way it is I'm the side chick) we started with a humble beginning with the support of my parents. God has smiled on my husband and all of a sudden I'm not good enough to be his wife.
He keeps late nights and travels with the girl.It's so bad that he managed to val me on valentines day but the so called girlfriend was the one who picked what he used to val me.
I have begged him to tell me what I have done but he can't hold on to anything. To think I never dated any before him and I am being treated like trash.And to my greatest surprise my inlaws are aware and fully in support of his extra marital affairs . I have asked people that know the girl to help me beg her(maybe she doesn't know he's married)and even put a call through to her severally but she has turned deaf ears. He even goes out with our child and the girl.Is it now a crime that I prayed to GOD to bless and increase my husband because the blessing is beginning to look like bad luck to me . But my bible tells me that the blessings of GOD maketh rich and add no sorrow, why is mine causing me pain. I have asked my husband if he's no longer interested in the marriage but he won't say a word. How can men be so cruel and wicked no conscience whatsoever.I feel cheated, used and frustrated. Please pray for me I still love my husband and want my home back I pray my husband and the girl sees this.
Hmmm, il advice even though u still love hiim and keep praying to kind of mentally detach your emotions from him at this point, just in case the worst happens, you r not to broken!
ReplyDeleteHmmm, il advice even though u still love hiim and keep praying to kind of mentally detach your emotions from him at this point, just in case the worst happens, you r not to broken!
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm.This is pathetic. His family is aware of ds development already. So I wont advice you to talk.to them.
ReplyDeleteAm so sorry hun but I think you need to think about your own sanity right now
ReplyDeleteThis is the fear of many women who start humble beginnings with their spouse
ReplyDeleteOdikwa serious something
ReplyDeleteThe girlfriend no even fear. Let THUNDER strike her down.....God forbid you bad thing
Humm that girl has gusts! What so ever is attracting the man to her be scattered IJN. Let enmity come between them n let anything that binds them be broken.
ReplyDeleteamen
DeleteI pray God gives u d strength u need to face this storm. Obviously he's head is deeply buried in that girls p***y!!
ReplyDeleteAm really touched by this story n am angry. You are going no where that is your home if he wants to go let him go but he won't go no where u won't labor for another woman to come n enjoy. The weapon I know is prayers oo, God said ... a man shall be separated from his father n mother n be joined to his wife... if God has commanded so then every other person is not exempted pray that he be separation from his family, any 1 supporting him n the strange women. Let God bring his way people that will discourage him from adultery, let God cease his peace cause. Let God's order of marriage be established in your home.
ReplyDeleteDon't be weary this is a time to be strong and stand for your marriage.
On your part make sure you remain attractive to him and take good care of your self, love n pamper yourself ( even though its hard) . Try to remain calm and hold God by his word.
Let them travel all over the world, if he wants to marry her let him do so for whatever is wrong will surely have an end. Don't cheapen yourself by begging the girl or your husband, that is why they are treating your pleas with deaf ears and rubbing it in your face.
ReplyDeleteTake a stand whatever he does outside must not be brought to your home. Tell him that.
2 he mustn't take your child to visit any idiot out there, you gave birth to the child so that's like an exclusive right.
3 get a job n focus on it
4 leave love out of this issue,he obviously knows you will come back begging that is why he is not scared of loosing you.
5 pray for yourself and your child.
6 stop complaining to people act like nothing is wrong,n if you have been cooking for a year without him touching it stop cooking.
Never beg any body to love you,if it isn't free n mutual then u got to out yourself first.
Jesus was betrayed so just take this as a normal occurrence in life and learn to love yourself.
This ain't ordinary. Awon iya Oko bournvita. Onijekuje
ReplyDeleteOh wow please d wife should even get tested for diseases o cos I've got a friend whose got a similar story he cheated continuously and ended up giving ma friend gonorrhea it has gotten so bad before she found out.
ReplyDeleteChai, its painfully but my dear sis, u will win. Anoint ur private parts with anointing oil, water before meeting him at any slightest chance
ReplyDeleteBut be careful so he no go give u std.
Ah ah anointing oil!!!
DeletePlease who know the girl's house make we go pour acid for the p***y she'S using to charm another woman's @Admin
ReplyDeleteAm interested in knowing d girls place oooo@ Admin. she should be taught some lessons
DeleteYouu, do d uncommon tins to get uncommon answers through prayers....pray 12 midnight anoint his shoes so that when he wears it he wont go anywhere near the girl... Prayers works ooo! Then you have to start doing some tins u Dont normally do. The way you care or show love to him? Food? Even if all are in place the. Change the pattern.... Since na change era we dey ��above all pray
ReplyDeleteSome men may never change will always be dogs but if girls will say no to married men we won't be here discussing this!
ReplyDeleteMy dear prayer is the only solution. Wake up 12 mid night and pray naked for ur man. Read plms and see if God will not show up for u. The bible said we should suffer the wicked not to leave. That his so called girl will never hv peace in her home that if she ever gets married. My dear sis lastly this is for u, check ur self as well and know were u hv falling short of his love. Are u robbing it on his face that he was a nobody before ur parents made him something? U alone know d truth. May God restore ur home IJN
ReplyDeleteBut women too need to be careful. Some women frustrate their husbands so much they are forced to go out An not trying to justify his actions
ReplyDeleteWeather you spice your marriage with ajilomoto or Maggi cubes or knor he wants to be promiscuous he will oo. Pls let us not deceive ourselves. Lailai no man is faithful cos at one point of their life they will still go astray, one way or the other. Is the foolish ones dat now do foolish things
ReplyDeleteGod help us women, e no easy especially d nagging thing. me oh, i expect d unexpected in my marriage cos no man will give me high blood pressure. all we owe our spouse is prayer
ReplyDeleteLol @ high bp I cant fit ooo God help us all
DeleteThe truth is every woman should get herself empowered and face her God,children and work...when u have enough money and your children, extended loved ones.just ignore d man he will get insecure and come around
ReplyDeleteNawaa for all these men sef! U will be praying hard for them and they'll be busy outside looking where to put their thing.
ReplyDeleteBut trust me i know myself... Say i know d side chick? Chai i sure go don dismantle her face small. She go chop beating small might not b from me directly. Before e end she go feel am
ReplyDeleteHmmm my darling trust me I know aw it feels wen ur partner cheats, though I was not married then but I'm sure it feels dsame and I thank God i didn't marry dat same man.
ReplyDeleteThe truth is u can not change a man, only God can and d person in question must be willing.
If I were u, I'l give him space let him av d feeling dat u can do without him, dat might jst give him a rethink AND depending on aw hurt u feel u can actually divorce him cos God permits it on d reason of infidelity even though same God hates divorce.
my dear I can only tell u to do wat wld make u happy.
God help u in wateva decision u make.