Somebody is about to commit murder. Hmm!!!!
In my early years in kano as an Ijaw girl, I lived with four friends in a one room apartment. life was so tough that we had to work so hard to pay our rent and live up to expectations as graduates. Few years later we all relocated to abuja and two out of my friends got married. I was happy for them and was also praying to God for my own husband to come forth.
As I was approaching 37 years ,God smiled on me. I met the man I am married to at a wedding ,and immediately he saw me he was head over heels saying" this is my wife"6 months after we met, we got married and one of my friends who was yet to be married was my chief bridesmaids.my husband does practically everything for me even when I don't ask him. I am even on the payroll of his company. God blessed us with beautiful children in seven years of marriage,The way my husband showers me with love I never for one day suspected he was cheating on me up on till recently when I found out that he was in a serious relationship (side chick again)with someone in abuja.
I contacted my friend (chief bridesmaid) to help me investigate and trace the person dating my husband as I now live in lagos.my friend called me up few days later saying I should relax my mind that my husband wasn't cheating on me, I believed her despite the fact that my earlier informant insisted he was. I decided to follow him on his next trip to abuja unknowingly to him , and that was when I discovered the unbelievable. My so called friend "chief bridesmaid " is the person my husband is dating in abuja. I returned to lagos not allowing my husband to know my findings, My husband still showers me with love but how could he be so callous. (Sad face) he stooped so low to date my friend . How can he pretend to love me and he is a frequent flyer to abuja to see "my friend. How can my chief bridesmaids stab me in the back? I am yet to confront them (my husband and friend) but I'm so hurt that I feel like committing murder. Please somebody help me as I'm loosing my mind by the day.
As I was approaching 37 years ,God smiled on me. I met the man I am married to at a wedding ,and immediately he saw me he was head over heels saying" this is my wife"6 months after we met, we got married and one of my friends who was yet to be married was my chief bridesmaids.my husband does practically everything for me even when I don't ask him. I am even on the payroll of his company. God blessed us with beautiful children in seven years of marriage,The way my husband showers me with love I never for one day suspected he was cheating on me up on till recently when I found out that he was in a serious relationship (side chick again)with someone in abuja.
I contacted my friend (chief bridesmaid) to help me investigate and trace the person dating my husband as I now live in lagos.my friend called me up few days later saying I should relax my mind that my husband wasn't cheating on me, I believed her despite the fact that my earlier informant insisted he was. I decided to follow him on his next trip to abuja unknowingly to him , and that was when I discovered the unbelievable. My so called friend "chief bridesmaid " is the person my husband is dating in abuja. I returned to lagos not allowing my husband to know my findings, My husband still showers me with love but how could he be so callous. (Sad face) he stooped so low to date my friend . How can he pretend to love me and he is a frequent flyer to abuja to see "my friend. How can my chief bridesmaids stab me in the back? I am yet to confront them (my husband and friend) but I'm so hurt that I feel like committing murder. Please somebody help me as I'm loosing my mind by the day.
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ReplyDeleteMake sure u have plenty money in your account. .....then follow him again to abuja, take your so called devilish friend out n invite your hubby to join u guys...but be sure its you and d witch friend o....before he gets there....after a few laughs (I know it hurts but manage to laugh)...then tell them u know about what's going on....after you say that ...go home without a word!!! Then start a hard fire section prayers....cos that your winchin winchin friend needs to be dealt with by God.
ReplyDeleteTruly fear dey catch me sef. People can be very wicked Cos d bridesmaid dating her hubby is act ofs wickedness.
ReplyDeleteI keep saying it....it may not entirely be men's fault o.....girls (some)this days are purely evil...There will run after a married man with everything they've got!!! We are Africans....juju is real....But With God our home will be covered. Our husbands will escape their evil nets. Ijn...Amen
ReplyDeleteIt's really sad but involving the lady (brides maid )I think is giving value to her valueless life,your hubby loves you the lady is just a distraction ,take in your hubby treat him to a good meal ,love making and then tell him your findings and beg him to stop,
ReplyDeleteThe fact that the man is responsible and all caring shows he knows what he's doing. He Doesn't want his wife to suspect him
ReplyDeleteBut, the wife should just confront him not the girl and not rudely
I admire her calmness God! please don't commit suicide n u have your kids to live for n others that love u including your hubby.
ReplyDeleteAs you have acted in wisdom in d 1st place I pray God gives u the wisdom to handle the situation. Thank God your hubby still cares for you.
I like d suggestion by 'same of love' . God bless you
Good evening house. My take on this issue is that the lady should just take it easy. Such can be painful yes... but confrontation will ruin things for her if she won't be able to handle it well.
ReplyDelete1. She has traded her peace when she started suspecting him, bitterness and anger is d results of such action.
2. If she is not careful her home might never be d same again and if the man is the I don't care kind of person confronting him might not make him stop.
So to you my darling sister, I pray the peace of God into your life today. Receive calmness and have a quiet time with your God.
I want to blv dat d guy is not taking care of you bcos he is cheating no... and not doing it bcos he doesn't want u to find out, I want to blv he loves you. Loving you doesn't stop him from cheating so dont mix tins up.
If you are thinking of committing murder,which of them do u want to kill?
My dear you dont need that. Your husband is your own. Ask God for direction, Give him reasons why he should stop seeing the gal. Let him know how bad you feel about what he is doing. I want to beg you please don't stop loving him.
When you hear people celebrating 20. 50 years of marriage you think their husbands don't cheat? Hmmmm my darling, Proverbs : 1 says a wise woman builds her house: you have to make up your mind that no stupid girl's issue will bring quarrel to your marriage. So if you are thinking of killing, how many will you kill before your marriage will be 20 years? Please keep your home my dear.
ReplyDeleteIn keeping her home now she should develop high blood pressure n maybe catch a disease.ok o.only in africa is marriage the womans work.
DeleteI like your piece of advice well mrs Jane, please anonymous, adhere to this advice, be wise for the sake of your home and your kids. Pray to God to restore your peace. And also prayerfully separate that lady from your hubby. He belongs to U and no side chick.
ReplyDeleteWhat u don't know wouldn't hurt, but in this case u know and it hurts. Would advise u still keep being the loving wife, do not change cos of what u saw. Keep a distant from the so called chief bridesmaid and most of all be more prayerful for God to take his eyes of her. Murder would never be the option IJN.
ReplyDeleteLol @ winchi winchi abeg fire her mfm prayers no waste time.
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