Good day Ene. I was glad when my friend invited me to the DOASW. The invite came at the right time. I will like to remain anonymous. I'm married with Two kids and by the grace of God we are very comfortable but my husband is very stingy.He loves me but doesn't give me money . I work but no matter how little I still feel I'm his responsibility. I noticed some changes in my husband and suspected he was cheating. I confronted him but he denied severally. On Wednesday night 13th May to be precise he woke me up at night that he had a confession. That I should please forgive him he's been cheating on me for 2 years in a 5 years marriage and that his conscience won't let him. He feels guilty whenever he sees me..I wish I am dreaming.. Pleases I'm confused... A lot on my mind..all I hear is revenge. Pleases sisters help me.
FORGIVE
ReplyDelete
ReplyDeleteseriously!!! i pray she can forgive
Forgive him simple....... God will give you the grace to. .
ReplyDeleteIf truly he confessed, common girl,how many cheating men confesses?
ReplyDeleteU ll b sad dat wat u ve been suspectin is finally true, but watelse can u do, just b matured n remain calm n take care of ur kids . Except u want to leave him which I will never advise,wats d use of d revenge, so dear poster, make urself happy.
'Revenge isn't all about it for now,be thankful he has eventually confused his doings,dats to say his ready for a change,if ure a Christian praying woman,ask God to present himslf once more in ur home,to restore all d Cankerworms n lost joy,a home built on d solid rock of Christ never cracks,a woman is d homemaker,shape n make ur home,for d stingy him,make him understand that even if u have ur earnings,wat he givs to u or wud giv to u,no matter how little would make u feel loved and truely secured,don't give up,
ReplyDeleterevenge is cancerous it is killer weapon wen used it ends up in regrets!
ReplyDeleteWell if he's been cheating for 2yrs ....I don't think that wil be d last. Forgive him sure, prayers sure. ...but u have to let him know that cheating in d future won't be ok with u....Thank God he confessed sef.
ReplyDelete#Forgive him and pray to God to change him cos his not a changed man yet. His just saying his confessions to you.
ReplyDeleteForgive him for the sake of your kids and pray for and with him....a family that prays together will always win together.
ReplyDeleteRevenge is not d answer cos you will end up regretting so dear move on love your kids and be happy n pray for peace.
ReplyDeleteThere is no relationship without it peculiarities. When you say he is stingy, does he provide for you and you children? Does he do all that is expected like pay 5he bills, fees etc. He confessed that he cheated, probably not the first time and hmmmm might not be the last. I agree with the sisters that say pray...its easy to revenge but those it really make you feel better or dirty. Two can't play that game hun.. focus on what really matters, your husband and your children.
ReplyDeleteYou are even lucky he is coming to you and confessing..how many men take that bold step..please forgive and let Go..that is restitution.. He needs your support now more than ever..that means your prayer is working..
ReplyDeleteThere is no justification for infidelity,some wives needs to go back to their oldself, Always have a surprise date wit ur man cos is aw they start wit those single girls,always look attractive and not tieing wrapper on d chest wit ur hair net always on,instead of looking sexy always.
ReplyDeleteFor me I think there is more abt dis confession .there are two tins involved.maybe he has a child with d lady or the lady is pregnant and wants to move to d house .so my dear sis try and get all he has in him to speak so whatever the case might be you just sort it out at once.But no matter d outcome forgiveness is d key
ReplyDeleteAhhhhhh!!! Pregnant ke!!! Child ke!!!....Then if all those are involve then forgiveness is not the KEY oooo. Na deal to deal with the husband and the girl join oo. I cant shout please
ReplyDeleteMy dear.......I honestly don't know cos its a different tin...when you are in that very situation.may God help you take the right decision.
ReplyDeleteWhen you have kids with a man your actions are beyond you. Anonymous, talk to him communicate better in what ever language he understands. Even if the other woman is pregnant really let's be real so? You will only shout but guess what situation hasn't changed. Always remember what ever step you talk you always want to ensure you have the power
ReplyDeleteEvery man would always v a story to tell you why they are cheating! But no advise can work d miracle, @ dear anonymous, you want your home, get it back.
ReplyDeleteSorry Madam about your situation. But I think it's a good thing he confessed to u. He has not told u that the lady is involved is preggers or has a child so I don't think u should even consider strategising on a problem that is not existing. Such thots will consume your energy that u shd channel towards forgiveness and the way forward. If ur child was naughty and confessed it to u, I believe u would be happy he did rather than lying. Your marriage is 5 years old...still fresh, young and in the moulding stage. Whether u will get past the hitches along the way depends on what you want for urself. Be a praying woman, wife and mother and be good to ur husband lest u push him out..be his everything..wife, girlfriend, fun, friend, chick etc...lol. God will give u the grace! Best wishes
ReplyDeleteForgive is since he has called you to confess, just continue to put him in ur prayer for. Him not to go bck to dat again.
ReplyDelete