Let me start by thanking you for giving women like me the opportunity to speak out.
I already feel like a burden has left me as I am typing. may God bless and keep your home..
I married the father of my children six years ago and everyday of that marriage have being endured not enjoyed. the man I took a vow to love and cherish for the rest of my life is not only a cheat but very irresponsible and has no regard or respect for me.
There's bridge in communication, I have to take date for love making (prior notice). he has never raised his hands on me which is not a plus because he's not even suppose to..
Straight to my case. I just found out my husband has a 3yrs old child by another woman. What it means is that he had the child after we got married.
I have evidence and know where his baby mama lives. I don't know if I should confront him.. I'm confused because I still love him but a part of me see him as evil because any man that can keep such secret doesn't have a conscience and can kill.
Hmmm! my dear please confront him don't pretend not to know
ReplyDeleteSuch an infidelity. Hnnnnm! If u can take it, call him for serious discussion, there's no two ways coz d boy is already born n its also his responsibility. Hnnm! Talk to ur marriage God parent/spiritual parent/his parent or all. Get positive advice's, pray for direction. Don't ever tink of leaving ur home for any strange woman nor have d tot to live ur children to call a strange woman mum. Pls its very sensitive n needs careful n wise decision's. May God help u to overcome dis trial. Its well my sister.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm! cant even imagine how you feel now but i think you should confront him but don't start in an aggressive manner. Pray before bringing the matter up for God to direct You. I know prayer fit hard but try cos even me i may not even remember prayers oooo. Ehen
ReplyDeleteSuch betrayal! Wrong on so many levels.
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ReplyDeleteSerious stuff!!
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