I was broken and didn't ever think I could forgive him. he has come back to me crying and saying he's not happy in his marriage. but the sad is that, am still in love with the same man that jilted me and married another. I still want him back even with married status.
I have tried to date another again but its not just working for me.
I love him but don't want to be a side chick.
I know i am going to get lots of insults and negative comments but the truth must be told.
Aunty early 30's if you don't mind being a side chick continue to be stupid in lust. the truth is he will never leave his wife for you. if he was meant for you he wouldn't have left you in the first place
ReplyDeleteonly a teenager that can claim a thing like this. My dear, he is your past, leave him there and let him remain there, it's normal to reminisce about past relationships but for U to be saying U still love him? I fear for U cos U are jeopardizing your future. He has continued and forgotten U, why not U? Time waits for no one oh! Shine your eyes!!!
ReplyDelete1st and foremost he left u for another woman dats a clear sign dat ur not gd enuff for him,and if he's in contact wit u he only wants one thing which is sex,and if u are foolish enuff to continue to have dis relationship wit him u'll neva have urs.Be wise and move on,cos if he cldnt be without u he wldnt be wit someone else.
ReplyDeleteEveryone has a punisher but u shouldn't be punished forever. You must not be fooled twice. He knows u love him blindly and will tell u what u want to hear to fool u again and again. so my dear, use your tongue and count your teeth. Don't let him turn u to a play thing that he remembers when ever he feels like a free f...
ReplyDeleteLol............shine ur eye bebz, its over. My sincere advice is DAT u forget him n move on. If u can't coz he's close, pls change ur base or go for a holiday to clear ur head. If u can change ur mind set and be positive, my sis, God will give u a better Man. Don't be d other woman. Get busy. #Justina
ReplyDeleteHow old are you I must ask? then tell you you are very! very!! naive. Marriage is both a physical and spiritual bond. and i assure you you'll end up and a comforting pillow at the end. He stopped loving you when he went ahead marrying the other lady.
ReplyDeleteNo hard fillings but you need to grow Up gal!!!!
My dear, you do realize that even while you were dating him, YOU were the "side chick" if not he would have married you instead. I know someone whose boyfriend married someone else while he was still with her, she was twenty something, she's now approaching forty and still can't let him go! Is that what you want for yourself? How many more years do you intend to waste? There are many decent single men out there but you will not see them if you have your eyes set on one that's already married. MOVE ON!
ReplyDeleteHe's your past, done even have that taught of dating him or still be is side chick. If he was ur man he will never have left u for another woman. Pls done go back to where u vow u will never go again. It is forbidding.
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