I am happily married with a child ,I met my husband through his uncle during my youth service in Enugu.
His uncle has always been very nice to me which I thought was just a kind gesture, before my marriage, he would ask me to come over to the house and spend time with his wife and kids; this was just to get to know the family and a sign that I was accepted into the family. He usually comes to visit me as well.
On this faithful day, he came over to my place. It was raining heavily and he had to stay a bit longer due to the rain. Before I knew it, he started touching me and next thing we were lying on the bed and Of course we did the "deed". I felt bad and guilty afterwards and made sure it never happened again.
I eventually got married to his nephew, and we have been married for 3years with a daughter. All has been well, I've a very loving and caring husband.
The devil decided to visit me once again; it was his uncle. He came to visit and said he had some business related meetings and will be spending 2weeks with us. My husband and I were okay with the arrangement.
Now the problem is every time my husband goes to work or an outing with his friends, his uncle will make passes at me and ask that we have sex. Now he has gone into blackmailing me; that if I don't have sex with him, he will tell my husband what transpired between us in the past.
I have begged and begged but he has refused and insist I must dance to his tune. I made him understand what happened in the past was a mistake I regret and we can't relive the past as I am also now married to his nephew. He even made a silly statement that he helped me get a husband, as he brought me and his nephew together in the first place. Please what do I do; do I confess to my husband or let the sleeping dog lie as I do not want to live a life of lies and my past has come to confront me..
My own question is why did she go ahead to marry the guy when she has onced fucked his uncle before.
ReplyDeleteWas she that desperate to get married abi she doesn't watch #African Magic ni?.....of cus the man will want to nack her again and then if she doesn't give in, it will then turn to blackmail or had I known.
no nah, peperempe why wouldn't she have married him? marriage plans was already in place! she wasn't dating d uncle it just happened...
DeleteIt happened before you got married, I think you should confess to your husband and ask for his forgiveness b4 his uncle ruin your marriage
ReplyDeletepls inform your hubby about d incident that happened in d past without informing him of d latest move by his uncle so as not to give him d impression that if not for this new developments you will not inform him... trust me he will forgive you except he does not love you. your past is past and has nothing to do wit ur present. however,if you give in to d lustful desires of ur Hubby's uncle he will surely come again and am sure one day ur hubby will hear about it.
ReplyDeleteBetter late than never! If u can't do the time, don't do the crime! Best u tell him and fast! Choose a good time and good place... U laid your bed it's time to sleep on it. U know what they say about dirty little secrets.....? Handle it, the way you deem fit and the earlier the better!All the best
ReplyDeleteIf that girl dey see or read this our comment... abeg let her hold on 1st. Do enough crazy for that uncle inlaw of urs. Which kind him won go tell ur husband wetin happen how many years ago? Why u dey do like mumu? Na only God dey do ref for wia dat kind tin dey happen. My sista na to open ur eyes like correct baby and show d uncle say u no b mumu no beg am again. U don do mistake sef u for don tell am wen he carry him trouble come say u don already tell ur husband about the matter since because u know say 1 day he go won carry him makosa take spoil ur blues.
ReplyDeleteYeye man if him wife no do make e go pay ashewo for road now haha.
You sef tell am say u go tell him wife say he dey worry u.
On a serious note...when next he comes to u please record d part of his conversation dat can implicate him and let him know you have such recording. O gba freedom niyen o.
Dis is d naughty side of me.
@ aunty jane are u saying she shouldn't inform her man yet?
DeleteHahahaha @anuty Jane toms up I like dat,since she has done mumu to beg him let her tell him she is telling her husband n she should b4 he does after all it was b4 dey got married.n Pls tell ur husband his harassing you seriously now.
DeleteOjay darling, am not saying dat. But she will know better whether to confess or not. If she is not careful that might be d end of that marriage o. Some guys will not really see it as much but some everybody go know wetin u cook wey house take burn ooo. Abeg mk she 1st go tell God tell father make we hear wetin them go talk. D guy no get past join present? ��
DeleteNo tell ur husband anything jor! Dat uncle is just threatening you, he no fit talk am!he can't say and if he does deny it!
ReplyDeleteConfess ke? How can you confess such a thing. Even if the man is gentle like cold water, I don't think she should confess. Just like aunty jane said the deed has bin done. The next thing is for her to open eye for Bastard uncle.
ReplyDelete... so if she had slept with several men is she going to start telling her husband all that! I think she should worn d uncle n threaten to tell his wife n d family what he's doing.
ReplyDeleteShe did it before marriage. Let her ask for God's forgiveness n if she feels ok to tell her hubby fine.
We all make mistakes n if God forgives who are we to judge.
I don't think telling her husband is a good idea. N she should never allow him into her house ever!
Be strong woman shine your eyes.
@ peperempe yes o, no point. If he tells your husband claim he forced you n u didn't want to break his home so u keep quiet.
ReplyDeleteShe should be ahead of d useless uncle in ds game. Confession here shouldn't be an option. But rather tell her hubby d uncle is making advances. If he doesn't believe, she should be wise n trap dat good for nothing uncle in his own game. Period.
ReplyDelete@ peperempe I support ur 1st comment, she's very selfish and she deserves everything happening now.how cld u sleep wit his uncle and den marry him without telling him?where u dat desperate?i think ur d wicked person here for deceiving d innocent man.U shld ve confessed b4 marriage now it's too late,if I were ur husband I'll Neva trust u again cos its deep. Tufiakwa dis one@ojay there's nothing like past o she selfishly slept wit d useless uncle and kept quiet about it now it has cum back to hunt her its present not past. We've bin discussing how wicked men are dis is one wicked selfish woman.
ReplyDeleteConfession is out of it oh.no matter how mumucious d luv is no man can take dat oh.set a trap for dat man .tell ur husband dat his uncle has been making passes at u.tell his wife.he cant open his mouth to say wat happened except if he has it recorded.before he deals with u u need to act fast and go ahead of him.i wish u well but u self no try.why on earth wld u do such a tin a man u dnt hav anyting wiith u sleep with him. We suppose find dat man beat am wella.Aunty @ Jane I be mopol like u oh female mopol I no de take nonsense make we go beat d man ��
ReplyDelete@Ladi u talk am well
DeleteKnowing you will eventually enter d family as a wife, why u no control ur flesh, u allowed ur flesh to have control over u. Chai!!! U understand ur Hubby pass us, abeg u should know d best time n natural tactics to get ur hubby on ur side. Talk to him tonight. If u are a God fearing person now, pls pray fervently before approaching him. I wish u all u wish urself in dis ur game/story/reality.com
ReplyDeleteOr tell him you will tell his wife whom he was already married too.
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