I sit here confused and thinking were did I go wrong? Who do I talk to? Who can I share this heavy burden with?. Finally I get the courage to speak up on this blog after I saw the first male post on here.
I am a good man with a lovely family and I certainly know that I am not perfect.
I love my wife so much and she is also a good woman in her every way. She is a very social woman who has values and is well behaved. We have been married for 10years without hiccups except the usual husband and wife little misunderstandings...untill my wife shocked me with a confession that has made me contemplate murder or even suicide. My wife dated her first ever boyfriend and parted ways (according to her) without breaking up or ending things. Back then she was madly in love with him and never thought she could leave without him. 7years into our marriage she got a strange call which happened to be the guy who came across a common friend that gave him my wife's contact they kept talking and chatting like normal friends until the guy came down to nigeria and on sighting each other their love struck again.
This act produced a child whom all along I have been thinking is my 4th child whom I adore and love so much. This child came in when we decided and agreed we will only have three kids. But you know how these things are and I thought oh yea this was a mistake; an unplanned pregnancy as we call it.
The guy left back to canada but they are fully in-touch. With this shocker that makes me terrified but still I am ready to forgive my wife for the sake of our children and the love That we shared. But my biggest challenge is that my wife wants to leave me. She claims she is still madly in love with this guy and wants to be with him. She has even decided to move to Canada and be with him. She is ready to give up everything for this guy.
I have begged despite all odds but she said she can't help it except God helps her. This is just beyond me and I can't guarantee my next line of action. I am like a walking corpse, my mind is a million miles and not here with me. I have cried, I have wept; these days I avoid friends and relatives in-order not to let people know what is going on; I'm hoping we can still settle this, I'm hoping I can still convince her to stay. Please help me; I'm loosing my mind here.
Hmmmmmm.....so women do all this shitty things. What a shameful act from her. That's why I don't even encourage friendship from Ex's cos they are bad news.
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DeleteAww....this is awful.
ReplyDeleteMen aren't wired to handle stuff like this...that's why its easier for us women to handle a cheating husband than d other way round!!! But for d fact that he doesn't want to share it with friends and relatives says a lot about this man...he's truly a good man...a gentle man!!!...����. Sir the truth is that whatever is clouding ur wife's eyes hasn't cleared. ..and if her kids n what u guys shared can't make her reason then...I don't know what will. Cos that her so called ex is gonna hurt her. He definitely has a life over there in Canada n possibly a girl too. Ur wife's eyes go clear n she will come back to you...I just hope ur arms will be open...when her madness runs dry. Now if u really want to stop her then this is what I think u should do.....
1..cease her phone n keep her grounded.
2..get in touch with the ex n tell him exactly what he's doing ....which is breaking your home...fight for her!
3..pray...pray...n pray some more for God to handle her heart.
4..its hard I know but don't let this affect how u see d fourth child...its not d child's fault.
5.. am glad u are willing to forgive her... God will help u both.
6.. she said she can't help it except God helps her which means she can't control what she's feeling. Pray with her..don't let her be alone..God will help her.
Make sure all contacts with that guy is severed totally. Its not all love that is true love. # please don't let your kids find out about this....God bless you n heal your heartache. ...
He sounds too good to be true.... just saying
ReplyDelete@Tehilah ....it's true..I have come across a man like that...n he forgave his wife n they moved on....still married to d lady till date and their marriage grew stronger n closer. He actually values d wife more now....after d affair she had.
ReplyDeletecan you get the guy's contact?i mean your wife's lover and have a man to man talk.. but still d decision lies in d hands of ur wife! now i think you should inform families now... it has passed d stage where u hide such from them. call her parents or visit them table the on ground and let her voice it out before them. however if she insist she will leave you for d man, you have no choice than to move on! its difficult considering d kind of love you have shown her but then, is such a person worth your troubles? pls act fast as u can inform both families and ur spiritual heads. God bless
ReplyDeleteLove isn't a FEELING but a "CHOICE" but staying in love "IS" This woman choose her Ex over her husband and kids. That devil giving her ideas needs to be flogged out of her system
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm it's sad ooo. I don't believe a woman in her right senses will behave the way she's behaving.
ReplyDeletePlease spare me all the critics. Many married women have same problem of being married and in love with another. Its so unfortunate that she got in touch with her Ex. Not justifying her actions though!
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ReplyDeleteinform your spiritual heads like ur pastors.,call her parents and also yours,try to get the man's contact frm her phone and let d man knw what he has caused to ur home.you will be shocked dat what d man feels for her isnt wat she is feeling because ,the so called man probably has his own family over there and I bet u he wld not want his wife to hear about dis becos Canada no be nija where u behave anyhow in marriage his wife will send him packing back to Nija.so get intouch with d man he will leav ur wife
ReplyDeleteSituations like this create an upper limit for her willingness to be involved with you. She loves another and her best is reserved for him, even if she is unaware of that fact. She will never do anything for you that will come close to matching what she would for him. The fact that she would have his child and pass it off as yours shows how she lacks respect for you and is willing to use you in an unloving way. Would she have your child while she was with him and tell him it was his? If you want to minimize your pain and the childrens pain, drop her and don't take her back when her lover dumps her (he was willing to have another man raise his child. How upstanding is that?)
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