Monday, 22 June 2015

How my Mother In-Law manipulated My Husband.

As sent by a Female DOSAW reader:

I met my husband when we  were in 400 level in the university, we graduated together and worked our nysc to Abuja. Infact we stayed in the same room throughout our Nysc year. And after service i got a job immediately but my husband, then boyfriend went for his master program abroad,while he was there, I go to visit his mother and also spend weekend there. We were kinda close(least I forget,he's the only son). His parents stay in Abuja.

After his masters program, we fixed a date for our wedding. but shortly before the wedding, his  father died and that  was when the problem started. My mum In-law shifted the wedding date and called me and was telling me thar i have bad luck. After we had the 40 dAys of mourning, according to our tradition.Another date was fixed,we got married and moved into his mum's house. Since my husband hasn't gotten a job. My mum in-law cooks for her son and herself alone.my husband would call me to eat before coming home as "mama didn't keep food for me" If mama finish having her bath, its my husband that creams her body. They would gist till 2am at times and abandon me.
Finally my husband got a good job and when his salary comes in  he gives his mum half of it which I didn't have a problem with.
After a year i didn't conceive so one night mama called me and gave me concortions to eat which I refused to take. It was so bad that my husband takes permission from mama before taking me out.
Because the problem was getting too much we rented a 2bedroom apartment but not too far from mama's.anytime he closes from work he stops @ mama' house to eat dinner He would call at times that he's sleeping over @ his mum's house. One day mama's gate man called me that uncle is  always sleeping in mama house(uncle is my husband) because of mamas friends daughter.I actually went there unannounced and met my husband with another woman .As if that wasn't enough, I got home from work this fateful day to meet the house empty just my stuffs left in the empty house.My hubby had moved out and his phones  switched off.
I ran to mama crying only for me to see my hubby and that same girl. Guess what mama said to me? "That when the rent is due i should move out. Our marriage lasted for only 18months.Now I'm single and Dont want to go into any relationship again.

1 comment:

  1. Alex fruitful6/22/2015 10:48 am

    Lol, I would just say the devil is a bastard, but God still takes the victory. My dear in the first place it wasn't meant to be my opinion O. Just thank God and please don't close up to another relationship, just pray for God to strengthen you and heal your heart, also pray fervently for direction and a better man that loves God first. I for one can't marry a mom's boy, an indecisive one for that matter cos it's so obvious the mom is in charge of him and your home, My dear move on O e Don happen e Don happen if kids were involved I would have advised otherwise. All the best.
    And moms out there please try to leave your sons alone and let what God says prevail. The man shall leave his parents n cling to his wife. Please stop putting asunder b4 you incure God's rod marriage is an institution of God woooo #pensive#

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