When i met my wife our sexual relationship was very perfect. We couldn't get enough of each other. But i noticed some little changes before we got married, my wife was becoming to religious.she said she didn't feel it was right for us to be sleeping on the same bed ,and also we shouldn't have sex again until we got married.I loved her not just because of sex so these requests weren't a problem.After our wedding we had a couple of family issues which indirectly affected our sex life.but now the issues are long gone and we still haven't gotten it right with love making. Its mid year already and I can say we have made love 3 or 4 times this year. She's always having excuses....she's never in the mood. Recently she used my morning breath as an excuse.
This is really challenging, because i don't think she desires me anymore.I deeply and truly love my wife with all my heart but I think she is done with me sexually and I feel so bad because I made a vow never to cheat on my wife but she's really pushing me too far...
Tuesday, 16 June 2015
My wife is done with me sexually
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Oga Poster...your wife is still hurting. Sincerely apologise and talk about the issues... this way, you will ease off the hurts and win her back. This is what Men never understand. She needs to voice out her hurts, so give her that chance to do so the ur sex life will become perfect again
ReplyDeleteThis is not magic... ur wife is not a light switch. You clearly mentioned that the family issues you had pulled your relationship apart. This is why you need to communicate. If you think you can cheaply cheat on ur wife, remember she also has a pussy that can be fucked by some other guy. So shut your mouth...cheating is not always the way out.
ReplyDeleteThis is not magic... ur wife is not a light switch. You clearly mentioned that the family issues you had pulled your relationship apart. This is why you need to communicate. If you think you can cheaply cheat on ur wife, remember she also has a pussy that can be fucked by some other guy. So shut your mouth...cheating is not always the way out.
ReplyDeleteChai chai Choi........ Dearis God oooooooh. . Hnnnnmm. Serious issue oooooh. Mrs Anonymous, wake up oooooh. Sexcercise......
ReplyDeleteThis one no be too religious mata o. He should check if the wife ain't getting it somewhere else o
ReplyDeleteIt is very possible that she's not getting it anywhere...the fact that a woman resist her husband does not necessarily mean she's cheating! although most times men are said to be having it outside if they resist their wives.
ReplyDeleteif i read d post well, the guy said earlier in the marriage they had issues which has long been settled, but my brother if i will be sincere with you, it is possible that the issue u claimed to have bin resolved really hurt your wife and would take much love and prayers from you to capture her attention again.. women can go a whole year without sex! i think you both should sit down and look into d matter and i pray that the holy spirit directs you as u do so. also if u already have kids and she's a career woman, its really not easy! pls work on your shortcomings, resolve your differences and you will b amazed.
Yes @ ojay may be right but are we saying in the society today that women don't cheat? We see them in town... So lets not erase the fact that its possible
Delete@ojay I fully agree with u my sis. It's not all about having it outside with someone else but has really ironed out the issues they had?
ReplyDeleteHardly before u will see a woman resist her husband for that long...so its either she's having an affair and that was made possible when you guys had d issue probably she got attention from somone else and that made her loose focus... Or she hasn't gotten over the issue but trust me women forgive and let go no matter how bad the issue is. so very sure she's distracted by a man. Wahala befor na men no dey attracted now woman? God help us in this race ooo
ReplyDeleteBut that a woman no longer wants to have seen doesn't necessarily mean she is cheating! It could be that the man isn't For whatever its worth the man needs to sit down and have a talk with his wife. Tackle the issue from the root. Or the guy isn't hitting the spot? Some men too do not know how to spice things up. Find out what your wife likes, Does she want fowl play and cuddling first... Take her out, spoil her...communicate
ReplyDeleteNot every time jump on the bed and remove cloth. Obviously deal with all the pending issues first before thinking sex
And if the lady needs time to heal, please let her heal
Sex is an addition not the ultimate. If u r wife is sick for a year and can't have sex does it give u the right to cheat? So it's not sex that keeps or should keep the home. That's why you still find some people that have phd in having sex with husbands that cheat! We all should learn to discipline our minds....it's all in your head.... I am not saying we should deprive our husbands of sex...no... please don't get me wrong... I'm just wondering y the first thing that should come to his head is whether he should look outside? Instead of finding a lasting solution to the problem inside.
ReplyDelete@ Ramat, its very possible for a woman to resist her man for as long as she decides to without having it outside.. in fact, challenges of life can weigh you down to the extent of not longing for it. stress factor, ur hubby not respecting or showing you love! now most time d only weapon women have recourse to is to use sex.am not saying its right, but then there is hardly u see a woman who's being genuinely loved and respected by her spouse, i repeat not just love but respected dt will not jump at d husband in fact she will always initiate d sex to show appreciation.Mr. Annoy.resolve your differences... i can tell you categorically dat if her reasons are as mentioned by me above and you decide to cheat on her, it will not affect her in any way rather you would have shut urself more and open ur home for another man who will simply do what you are not doing.be wise
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