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Dear Eneche,
I married my husband when I was
18years old.He lives abroad but comes to Nigeria every Christmas, It was during one of his visits that we met and in less than one year we got married and we have a beautiful daughter..….
He went back to Holland with the hope that I was going to join him soon. But it's 12 years already and there's no sign of joining him anytime soon.he doesn't even come to Nigeria regularly again,he comes every other year. My major concern is that I can't speak with my husband at will except he calls me. His number is always on voicemail. My family got so curious and decided to investigate him. And to our greatest surprise, our findings wasn't a good one.my darling husband is married to another Nigerian in Holland and they have 2,kids that are even older than my daughter.
I want to file for a divorce. but my inlaws are saying I'm the wife they know. I'm confused. I am only 30years and don't want to continue wasting my time. Please your sincere advice on what next i should do, will be appreciated. Thank you
Go ahead and file for the divorce. Your inlaws saying you are the only wife they know means they are also a dangerous family with
ReplyDeleteTwo kids older than yours are they saying they were not aware he was married before he married you.12 years without your man just means you r only married on paper.tell him wat u found out n then after hearing his side of his story u can either proceed on the divorce ish or just accept your fate.
Lastly u didn't prepare for this marriage if not you wouldn't be in a different country while ur husband is in another. These are,things you guy's should hv discussed before your marriage.