My wife is Lazy...

From Another Male Reader

Hello Eneche a friend of mine sent your broadcast on BBM and for some strange reason which I hardly do, I decided to read the message and go to the blog. Although I said to myself everyone wants to be a blogger, but I must say I was not disappointed reading your blog as it is different from the norm. I just hope it helps build homes and everyone gets a message for their situation as the case may be.

Well I have my own story to share. I am from a very rich home and an only child of my parents. I come from a family that believes everyone is equal, so getting married to my wife was not a problem despite our differences in social and finicial status. My wife grew up in one of the Police Barracks in Lagos; her father is a Police Officer. My wife comes from a humble home but her attitude since we got married is making me have a second thought.

Our marriage is barely a year and my wife has turned into something else. My parents live in the Abuja but because I didn't want any interference in my home, I decided to rent a 3 bedroom apartment before my wedding and furnished it to the best of my ability; to make my wife comfortable and happy. My wife doesn't work but sometimes I come back from work and she's still in her night gown, the house so unkept, all she does is eat, sleep and chat. She can be on phone all day or monitoring the Kardashian on TV. This is now beginning to make her build castle in the air.

It’s just the two of us in the house and she is already complaining that the work is too much, and advises we get a maid. Please don’t get me wrong there is nothing bad in having a maid but we are newly weds and we agreed no 3rd party at least for the first year. She does not work so please what is the use of this maid?
Imagine I come home one day unannounced and found a mid-age lady in our bathroom washing my wife's underwear and my wife was not home at the time. I asked the lady who she was and she replied that my wife just employed her to clean the house from Monday to Friday within the hours I will be at work. For Christ sake how on earth will you give someone your underwear to wash, when she’s not ill or pregnant and even if she is, some things are just private.

I complained and she quoted a part of 48 laws of power which says “Pay people to do what you can do yourself”. This is my own wife's understanding of that part of the Law.a maid washing her personal items. This amazes me because if my wife is from a rich home maybe I would understand and give reasons that this is how she was brought up but I mean I know how and where we met; No offense intended. My wife has all the Brazilian hair in the market; she does not have any personal savings. All she does is spend money forgetting where she came from.
So please ladies avoid things that would make your spouse start having a second opinion or considering looking at other women. I really hope my wife sees this. There was a story over the weekend about a celebrity's husband getting another lady pregnant please I am not justifying his action but was that girl really married? Well that's none of my business. I just want my wife to change her ways because we still have a long way to go.

"Oya Ladies over to you...Our husband's are vexing "Lol