A doasw reader sent this to me
You can't eat your cake and have it....
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I am in my late thirties and have a very good job. Five years ago I met my "husband" in my office, he was one of my company's contractor. we exchanged numbers and started dating.when I met him he told me he was divorced but have kids who live and school in the UK. We dated for two years and I got pregnant,so we went to my village were he officially asked for my hand in marriage and also paid my dowry immediately. Before we went to see my parents he showed me his divorce certificate which made me believe he was actually not with his wife.
But I noticed on our traditional marriage day he asked me not to use the picture as my dp or upload on social media because of his kids which i obliged. Unknowingly to me he was still married to the mother of his kids and they all live in the UK.
Apparently, what he showed me was a fake divorce paper.I already have a child for him, his kids now know about me and are frustrating me. He said he didn't want to loose me that was why he lied to me about been divorced... but he is still in the process of divorcing her.pls what should I do..I want to walk out of the marriage and concentrate on my child but he won't let me.
pls do walk out. infact run away
ReplyDeleteWhat??? This is a clear case of betrayal, selfishness and wickedness. He doesn't want to lose u yet he remains married to another woman; thereby preventing u from meeting a man to call your own. Abeg my sister, quit NOW!
ReplyDeleteHow can you trust him? Everything is a lie, and where there is no trust there can't be real love nor respect..there isn't any real marriage between you two (esp if he married her in court) you are merely a mother to his child and a kept woman.
ReplyDeleteMy dear.........remove your slippers hold am for hand .....run!!
ReplyDeleteThere is no marriage as d foundation was built on falsehood. A man that can deceive you that way can kill
ReplyDeleteFor him to divorce his wife dose not mean he can't divorce you too,the simple truth is that he is not your husband, you are the side chick. He has family pls quit cos he is deceiving you wit the word Divorce
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