"Who is a Readymade Man?" By Relationship Psychologist Adejoro Olumofin..
Any man that is overly successful/established, owns a chain of properties/vehicles etc and has no struggle in life whatsoever. A lot of ladies are single today because they have chosen not to comprise on their high standards and aren't interested in guys who may be struggling but has potential.
Some ladies make remarks or assertions like; “If he's not driving G Wagon forget it, he must live in Asokoro or Banana Island, he must have an Oil and Gas job or be in Politics.” They would rather wait for years, search far and wide, and join the queue of ladies who are on the case of Mr "RMM". Most times Mr RMM has a string of girls on his case and may have time to play around and waste a couple of ladies time. There's nothing wrong in knowing what you want and going for it but some of the ladies who fall under this category forget the most important quality that most powerful/successful couples possess, which is GROWTH.
Growth reminds a man of where he is coming from and most importantly who was with him before he became a "Made Man". Growth gives you, as a woman, the ability to put your man in check by reminding him who contributed and built his Empire with him. In the case of a “RMM" you can't claim any credit because you moved in with everything all set. I must also say that there is no set personality trait for a "RMM" he may be sweet and he may not, also some guys with potential, who have made it, forget who was with them when things were tough.. Choose carefully and pray for favor in choosing.....Doktormofin
Hmmmmmmm. My dear..... I think d focus should be on the character of the man, whether ready made, middle made or upcoming. Remember, not all upcoming guys are responsible. Consequently, not all "middle" or "ready" made guys are irresponsible. Some people are lucky, opportuned or just favoured early in life. Looking @ all dis really wealthy and rich men who started small and who's wives married them upcoming, a lot of them still marry second wives or cheat endlessly. So who is loosing? The bottom line is follow d person's character or personality. A bad person is a bad person whether rich or poor. If u can't give when u have little, then you can't give when you have much.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm. My dear..... I think d focus should be on the character of the man, whether ready made, middle made or upcoming. Remember, not all upcoming guys are responsible. Consequently, not all "middle" or "ready" made guys are irresponsible. Some people are lucky, opportuned or just favoured early in life. Looking @ all dis really wealthy and rich men who started small and who's wives married them upcoming, a lot of them still marry second wives or cheat endlessly. So who is loosing? The bottom line is follow d person's character or personality. A bad person is a bad person whether rich or poor. If u can't give when u have little, then you can't give when you have much.
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