Hello Eneche,
My wife and I have been married for 8years and have two kids aged 7and 4. We havent had sex for 2years . I mean nothing sexual has happened between us in 2years. Which is not ideal, but the worse is that there is no affection or intimacy either. Im not just attracted to her in that way anymore. The most we do is hug and peck on the cheek. And Im very sure she feels the same way too even though she won't admit it in fear of what it may lead to which is separation or divorce.It has the same appeal as if it were my sister or mother.We don't fight, and even if we do its never that bad and we don't carry it over for too long.I'm just 40years olds and dont know if I should just call it quit.i want to have a normal sexual relationship and cant because we are still married and don't want to hurt our kids.I just dont want to mess things up for my kids whom are very happy and settled. This dilemna is on my mind everyday and has been for a couple of years. I feel like something has to give eventually. Any thoughts from your readers would be highly appreciated.
Thank you for the good work you are doing..
Wow! If u have had sexual relationship with your wife for the last 6yrs bt started feeling indifferent just 2yrs ago, then it is workable. I mean u can bring dat sexual spark into ur marriage. My bros, having sexual relationship with another woman will still bore u after a while. Work on your feelings, do things differently and let the creator (God) of marriage help u
ReplyDeleteSomeone needs to break d ice ,you can start all over again take it back from where you guys started from since u still together no fight n all,it means you can still work it out try doing sometin you never did wit her.you ve to start from somewhere ooooo
ReplyDelete2yrs ke N someone complain bout everyday They can start all over,it aint over yet
ReplyDeleteTwo years without sex for a man is kind of unbelievable,do u guys sleep on the same bed this two years ?if you do then there is a problem,
ReplyDeleteI suggest you guys should sleep out or take a holiday asap or stay in a hotel for some days send the kids to grandma just the two of you ,also discuss it
It's too early for u to start seeing your self this way,when it's suppose to be for life contract of making love
ReplyDeleteVery unhealty!
ReplyDeleteDear anonymous In d first place 1st corn. 7:2 says but for the sake of fornication let every man have his own wife...
Bros I guess that's 1 of the reasons u got married so what happened, did you find another woman? Did you demand for it n she keeps refusing? Did u just stop being attracted to her. Am really unable to comprehend how a man can live in d same house with his wife n not try sex when some men can just pick a girl on d street n sleep with her.
Pls can he open up n tell us d real thing.
If I try denying my husband 4 a week without permission there will be no peace in d house oooo even when am fasting its sometimes impossible so man where have u been that u allowed this to take this long in d 1st place!
Just to guess u might have hurt her n she withdrew or she found someone else to take care of her sexual needs. Pls take d step n talk with her on these. U need serious intervention
Dear anonymous, your female tactics should come out here oh! U know men are moves by what they see? Why not try seducing him? He is your husband, you need sex now on a more serious note, he initiate the move. Make sure U are stripped. Let him understand that U need this thing. If he is worried about your tummy, there are other styles that he won't have to be on you. He can spoon U��. But U need to pray. Divorce is not an option at all enjoy.
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