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My husband just told me he is no more attracted to me.He says I'm pretty and that he likes certain aspects of me but isn't attracted to me just because i refused to have anal sex with him .Please what should I do?
"Mbok!! Things are happening ooo....all in the name of marriage".
SS Very easy answer.....girl get your self to the spa, get your hair done nicely, get some really nice cloths that emphasis all your best assets...get your make up done professionally and call your girlfriends and get to town. Be persistence in looking good of and have so much confidence....laugh all time...even when u r on your phone chatting...just be smiling but make sure he see you If he is telling it's because he needs you to do something about it....
ReplyDeleteThis is sad! He likes some things about you yet, he's not attracted to u...hmn maybe you should ask him why he's not attracted to u.
ReplyDeleteIs it physical attraction or emotional attraction? What if she goes to the spa and all n he still isn't attracted to her? Hiss.. I don't think it's a spa thing? Will she be going to the spa everyday in order for the attraction to be there? What happened to the vows that were taken on the alter? Please she needs to sit the guy down to find out what he is really talking about. Please that man needs help Anal sex should only happen if 2 parties agree .Nobody should be compelled to do it.
ReplyDeleteThat's y from the beginning it's always best not to pretend to like something When u dont. Maybe she used to do it before So to break that trend or habit now has become a problem. You see..... faulty foundation
ReplyDeleteSorry ehn... just keep managing anonymous
ReplyDeleteAbegy the man don turn gay with one alhaji or some other men so he is just beating around the bush...how can he be attracted when he now prefer anal..abeg na there e take do am to born....wo omo bobo ko ni excuse! Bad market
ReplyDeletei knew d attraction was much more than physical! well my take on this is that, if u have bn doing Anal with him and you suddenly changed ur mind, then that's d problem. however, with all the awareness on the medical challenges that comes with things like Anal Sex, after giving ur man genuine reason why u cant go ahead, and he feels he is no more attracted to you then d only option left is for u to pray! Also if u have never done it before then trust me ur guy is doing it out there. As for me its a No No..would not do it come what may! women should set standards for themselves!being Submissive according to what God requires of us to our husbands does not mean slavery
ReplyDeleteI don't understand why any normal person will want to do that But hey! Not judging...
ReplyDeleteGod alone can save some women in the hands of men. Its really terrible what most women endure in their marriage. Hmmmm. That man is the devil himself.
ReplyDeleteHow n why did she allow Anal sex from d onset? Was is wealth or love she went for?
ReplyDeleteMake Una buy dog for d man.
ReplyDeleteLoool.. U r mean
DeleteHe need God and he need prayers.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, I would advise you to pray for him,pray for God to deliver your husband from a reprobate mind. It's not your husband you should fight,but pray and uproot whatever demonic power that has taken control of his mind. Eph6.12.niv For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.
ReplyDeleteGod made husband and wife to have sex a certain way, and it isn't anal sex . Pray and ask for the grace to still love him.
What makes you think that if you concur to this his demand that it won't grow to him demanding other things like three some?
I pray God will help you.