Eneche please tell my sister in-law to leave my marriage alone.
I don't have a perfect home but at least I had peace of mind before my sister inlaw came into the picture. I am 27years old and have being married for 2years. Everything has been going very well until her interference.
This woman in question is a 40yr old divorcee. She moved into my home immediately after her separation from her husband. Ever since then she wants to be in control, she feels that she is right and I am always wrong. She feels she knows how best I should run the home, since the man is her brother.
I now have to take permission from her before I cook because according to her she's on a special diet and we can't be wasting her brothers money by cooking 2 different meals.
I was was down with malaria a couple of days ago and was unable make breakfast. I asked my house help to go ahead and make breakfast, only for my sister in-law to come to my room screaming and yelling that why the hell will I tell a maid to cook for her. In the heat of the moment, I tried to calm her down and explain that I wasn't feeling too well. She made a very lousy comment that when my maid snatches my husband, I shouldn't come to her crying. That we young ladies do not know how to keep our men.
And then I asked myself, if she was so good and knows how to keep a man, how come her own husband no stay na???see me see wahala....
Ever since she moved in, she now makes my husband pick on every little action I make or do. I am positive that she is feeding my husband with lies and gossips.
I don't want to loose my home like her please ask her to leave and stop being a monitoring spirit in my home.
Sister in-law they say I should beg you ooo😁😁
Drama lol dont mind all this sister inlaws that pokenoses if they luv thier brother so much ghey sud have married him and make luv to produce children.... Shior my dear patience is the word nd pray her out of ur home then talk to ur husband to find accomodation for her shes too matured to b wit u guys
ReplyDeleteShe is behaving her age, someone once told me that every newly married woman wants her husband to herself, as much as that is true, try and tolerate his people, it is hard, especially when they want to control your affairs for U. Give your self peace, give her what she wants if it's in your power, and God will vindicate and fight for U. It's not for us to judge who is a perfect woman or not, that one got separated from her husband does not mean she does not keep her home well. My dear anonymous sister, relax, it won't last forever. Give her what she wants so U can have peace.
ReplyDeleteAbeg The sister in law should realize that there is a woman in that house (wife), and accord her same respect! Even if d girl Na 10yrs old, Haba!
ReplyDeleteAbeg she should leave....period!! Wetin sef. Even though she's under 27...its her home. A 40 year old sister old doing what there now??? She has no right to stay there not to talk of demanding for what to eat. That is the wife's home!!! She should just leave.
ReplyDeleteyour only weapon is prayer...seriously pray that God should fight your battles for you.
ReplyDeletepray for your husband that God blesses him with wisdom from above. pray and remind God of His promises regarding peace in your marriage.
never raise your voice at her, leave the battle for God.